A love that turned into bitter.....

'I love you, why can't you understand that', and 'No' came the reply in a firm tone. I don't want to hear that no from you, I don't want to understand, that its no forever. I don't want to think about a future without you. That was never my dream. Why did you shatter it? Was there any mistake done? Was the time less? Was there any misunderstanding? If it was a No then why did you ever propose me? Why did you ever come in my life?. If cupid struck an arrow, then who is the one who removed it.. Cause the heart is just bleeding now.

Is it true that there is a better tomorrow with a broken heart? No idea isn't it. Even I don't have an answer to it. 'Love' is a very beautiful feeling, it feels nice to know, that someone somewhere loves you or when you are head over heels in love with someone. It makes you feel as if you are in the seventh cloud. But then all of sudden its over, both are apart and all bitter feelings are there. Some one moves on and gets married; and some is left behind with memories, which are actually sweet but just don't want to think about it, as it brings tears and bitterness. You feel - 'why me only God who has to suffer this?'. But in actual you not the only person who suffers this.

Each and every day without fail you remember the person, something in life reminds you of the one you loved, the song, the path, the things. You want to throw the things away but you can't; cause you know its the only thing left with you now. Everything starts to haunt you. People come up saying that you will find a better person, but you dont want a better person, you just want that one person back. In this busy life just holding back the tears you try to move on, but there when your all alone you realise your not out of it. You have a whole life in front of you to cry or live to the fullest which one do you choose now?

To all people who feel its the end of the road, try moving on and you will succeed in every phase of life. Destiny has already been written before you were born, which can't be changed, no matter how hard you try. Certain people are meant to part, cause that's best for both of them. For people who feel sucide is the best way to get out of this, let me tell you straight, live for the people who gave birth to you and don't die for the one who left you alone to suffer. You will find the right person with imperfections but just learn to accept, cause none here are perfect. Time heals everything, if you want it to be healed.

Sufferings are the best part of life cause they make us stronger than the wind to face anything in life. 

On this special day and every day of your life I just want to be right besides you holding your hand...

You had kept me inside you, safe and protected for the nine long months, suffered and went through all the pains, mood swings, nausea and health issues. All during this time you never knew how would I be on this earth, how would I look, no idea about anything; but still you gave all your love and care, struggled, prayed only for me to be born healthy. After the long 9 months when you first held me in your hands, what you only knew was me being all yours. Mom its you who gifted me the precious gift called 'LIFE'. The actual battle started then, you had to do everything to take care of me, even if it was at the cost of your life by starving, sleepless nights, looking like a round balloon, in all this you choose me first.

You saw my first smile, heard me cry for the first time, seen me crawl and walk my first step. You were with me when I first stepped to my school with the water bottle hanging around my neck and a small bag on my back, surprised to see so many other kids there whom I thought never existed on this planet. You were there when I came home hungry, waiting to be fed by your hands. You comforted me when I cried for small things in life, you prayed and were always there besides me checking the temperature when I was down with fever. You were there to guide my steps to the right path, make me a good person, teach me values of life. No matter whether the world stood with me or against me, you never let my hand go off yours. Even in the most difficult times of life, you still loved, cared, prayed and always blessed me to get the best from life.

We all grow to become something in life, but remember never leave your mom alone. She has gone through everything just to give you the best. If ever you want to do something for her in return then just take care of her as she did when you were a baby, give them your time from your so called busy life. Parents are the only angels in our life and no one can replace that. Always love and respect your parents as well as others, cause they too are someone's angels.

'HAPPY MOTHERS DAY TO ALL THE MOMS OUT THERE IN THIS WORLD'

Complicated yet sweet…

What the first thing that comes to our mind when we hear the word ‘COMPLICATED’? Is it Relationship? Then yes, your perfectly right. Relationships are very complicated, yet its the most sweetest part of life too. Have you ever imagined life without friends, family or anyone? A complete lonely life, isn’t that sad and boring?

That’s why relationships are sweet, it can be in any form, with parents, lover, your life partner, siblings, in-laws, relatives etc… Relationships are complicated because two different person and their emotions are involved in it. Each relationship has to be nurtured in a different manner. Understand and make your self stand in the other person’s place and feel what that person would feel if you were ever treated in that manner.

Being successful in business, a topper in class, well educated, foreign degree, best employee is quite easy to achieve these days. But people find it difficult to be the best child, good parent, wife or husband, sister or brother, niece or nephew, daughter-in-law or son-in-law etc. Why? Cause we all are busy in reaching heights, some invisible level, some big dreams; which has made us forget to live the life which God has blessed us with. And when the time is over we regret over it.

We all know that love, care, understanding and trust is the most important thing in relationships. Then we also need to know that, we have to express it to our loved ones, to people who mean something and everything in our life.

Next important thing for every relationship is communication, time and forgiveness but in today’s world we just don’t have this. Communicate, talk with each other no matter on what topic it is. Make time for people in your life, learn to clear the differences if there is anything. Remember that these people are not going to be in your life forever. Our life span is too short. Whats the use if you are going to be rich and have no one with you? Whats the use if your a topper in class but don’t have a friend to share your happiness or sorrow?

Forgiving people whom you love that will only strengthen and re-bond the relationship.  Its the best part when someone asks pardon and you forgive them, but remember forgiving also means never ever to remember the incident or talk about it again in present or future, only then its called forgiving. Never think your the superior to the other person, learn to compromise and save the relationship cause that’s more important than your ego, pride and status.

Books and books can be written, advices after advices can be given about relationship, there is nothing called as perfect relationship, in every relationship there are fights, misunderstanding, lack of trust, can’t forgive, lack of communication, negative thoughts. But all this has to be resolved in this one life, so don’t waste time thinking what best could have been done to avoid the past, live in the present and resolve all your differences.

Nurture a plant with lots of love, water and sunshine daily and you will see that it gives you the best fruit to eat. Same is with relationships; take care of it daily with love, care, concern, understanding, trust, forgiveness and you will see that its not complicated but the best part of your life.

Forgive, for they had no intention to hurt you.....

 
To forgive someone is so difficult, its like impossible. 'Why should I? They have destroyed my life? Why should I? He betrayed me'. Many more negative thoughts come to our mind and somewhere our soul too agrees to it.

In reality, Is forgiving so difficult? Do we really give people a chance? Why can't we forgive people when we ourselves commit thousands of mistake everyday. Life is simple if we make it and complicated if we create it.

There are times when we have forgiven someone and they have committed the same mistake again. Try to forgive them again, coz we are not God to punish someone.

Keep it simple : Forgive and Forget Forever..... :)