What the first thing that comes to our mind when we hear the word ‘COMPLICATED’? Is it Relationship? Then yes, your perfectly right. Relationships are very complicated, yet its the most sweetest part of life too. Have you ever imagined life without friends, family or anyone? A complete lonely life, isn’t that sad and boring?
That’s why relationships are sweet, it can be in any form, with parents, lover, your life partner, siblings, in-laws, relatives etc… Relationships are complicated because two different person and their emotions are involved in it. Each relationship has to be nurtured in a different manner. Understand and make your self stand in the other person’s place and feel what that person would feel if you were ever treated in that manner.
Being successful in business, a topper in class, well educated, foreign degree, best employee is quite easy to achieve these days. But people find it difficult to be the best child, good parent, wife or husband, sister or brother, niece or nephew, daughter-in-law or son-in-law etc. Why? Cause we all are busy in reaching heights, some invisible level, some big dreams; which has made us forget to live the life which God has blessed us with. And when the time is over we regret over it.
We all know that love, care, understanding and trust is the most important thing in relationships. Then we also need to know that, we have to express it to our loved ones, to people who mean something and everything in our life.
Next important thing for every relationship is communication, time and forgiveness but in today’s world we just don’t have this. Communicate, talk with each other no matter on what topic it is. Make time for people in your life, learn to clear the differences if there is anything. Remember that these people are not going to be in your life forever. Our life span is too short. Whats the use if you are going to be rich and have no one with you? Whats the use if your a topper in class but don’t have a friend to share your happiness or sorrow?
Forgiving people whom you love that will only strengthen and re-bond the relationship. Its the best part when someone asks pardon and you forgive them, but remember forgiving also means never ever to remember the incident or talk about it again in present or future, only then its called forgiving. Never think your the superior to the other person, learn to compromise and save the relationship cause that’s more important than your ego, pride and status.
Books and books can be written, advices after advices can be given about relationship, there is nothing called as perfect relationship, in every relationship there are fights, misunderstanding, lack of trust, can’t forgive, lack of communication, negative thoughts. But all this has to be resolved in this one life, so don’t waste time thinking what best could have been done to avoid the past, live in the present and resolve all your differences.
Nurture a plant with lots of love, water and sunshine daily and you will see that it gives you the best fruit to eat. Same is with relationships; take care of it daily with love, care, concern, understanding, trust, forgiveness and you will see that its not complicated but the best part of your life.
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